Allowing yourself to be SEEN unapologetically, is your first nature.
It's time to return to it.
One question that people often ask me is: "why am I so afraid of being seen?"
The truth is you are NOT. Being seen is not what scares you. Not really.
Being seen is what we crave as humans. It is our natural inclination.
"Being seen is your first nature."
The reality is that what scares you are the fears you project around being seen.
Odds are what you dread instead is:
- Exposing yourself to the potential of humiliation, loss and ridicule
- Having your truest self, your gifts, your craft and your light criticized
- Being attacked, persecuted or even cancelled because of your personal truth
- Potentially losing meaningful people in your life because they are not in resonance with your authenticity.
Is any of this ringing a bell?
I know firsthand that these are some of the fears that crippled my expression...
I know the depth of frustration you feel when deep down you know you have so much to offer and yet you cannot bring yourself to unleash it consistently.
I know what it feels like to wrestle with self sabotage and impostor syndrome... to the point that you start questioning if your brightness is worth shinning at all, or if your authenticity is worth expressing.
I know how cozy the painful comfort of self censorship can be, even when everything inside screams to be expressed.
If you are tired of living in that sweet agony, then this journey is for you.
Expressing the unique spectrum of light that is encoded within your soul, is your legacy
Here is an unpopular reality check...
"There comes a time where repressing your authenticity, your voice and your gifts, becomes more heavy than repressing your deepest pain."
If you ask me, we are living in such times.
This is something I've experienced personally.
I spent years in depression because I was in rejection of what my heart deeply desired.
I spent years pursuing shadow careers and hollow relationships because I wasn't willing to go through the sobering embrace of self liberation.
I thought I needed to eradicate the saboteur and impostor inside of me in order to achieve meaningful change. Yet that was me buying again into the paradigm of separation. It did not work. Not consistently.
Self sabotage, impostor syndrome, resistance and everything else that seems to get in the way of your ability to be seen authentically, are your intuition in disguise pointing at the path of self liberation.
It's only when I embraced this paradigm shift that things started to change consistently.
I want to take you through the blueprint with YOU!
This work is about integrative self liberation.
What would be possible if you stopped resisting your voice?
What if you could rewire the unconscious templates that cause you to hide even when your heart is inviting you to take up space?
What if you trusted your ability to keep your heart open regardless of how others perceive your authentic self expression?
What if the fear of humiliation, judgement or criticism no longer caused you to disown your voice?
What would be possible if you allowed yourself to be a stronger vessel for your gifts, your authenticity and your light?
What would be possible if you built the emotional body and mental wiring to share your best work and your message with the world unapologetically?
I'm going to tell you what would happen.
YOU WOULD BE UNLEASHED.
Introducing SEEN
Join us for the 2024 immersion.
This is a LIVE journey that goes from Wednesday April 24th to Wednesday May 29th.
It's time to shift from repressed to EXPRESSED!
SEEN is a 6-week transformational bootcamp designed to help you dissolve the shadow material that cripples your voice and awaken your unapologetic and heart-centered self-expression.
JOIN THE WAITLISTThe world is ready for your heart-centered self expression. Allow yourself to fully reclaim it.
This immersion has been specifically designed for...
Creatives, artists and writers who struggle with sharing their craft with the world
Practitioners, light workers and entrepreneurs who desire to unleash their message and mission
Creators that are already expressing themselves, but deep down know that there is another level of expression that they don't know quite yet how to achieve
Anyone who is ready to bring more of their heart-centered and authentic self expression to the world around them and their relationships
Beyond everything, this immersion is designed for people who are no longer available to find safety in being invisible even when their soul is inviting them to take up space.
What former participants say about SEEN...
“SEEN was an incredible experience of bein SEEN and witnessing others do the same. The material was so high level and embodied at the same time. The integration journeys were truly transformational for me. The community was a crucial piece of getting comfortable seeing and being seen."
- Allison Dru, Psychologist, Reiki master & spiritual guide
“Being SEEN in both our shadows and our light can be terrifying and liberating all at once. Xavier is a rare find who walks you into your shadow, and holds you in a safe space while you learn what you need to learn there. He is a remarkable guide and I hope to continue my journey with him and his teachings.“
- Jenny Aiello, Personal Coach.
What you can expect from this 6-week journey...
SEEN is not an experience where you come to sit in the back and passively consume information.
SEEN is designed as a transformational bootcamp. It is designed for people who are ready to embody change and take action. The purpose of this offering is to compel you to show up in your life in new ways.
Your voice and your authentic self expression are the highway to your heart's deepest desires. And SEEN is the container where they awaken.
The truth is that you are wired to be seen. You are wired to exude your light. And when we clear what stands in the way, you return to that most natural state. That is the magic of the journey that you are about to dive into.
The deliverables
- 6 Weekly live calls with Xavier. Each call will last between 2.5h and 3h. The call structure is as follows:
- Live teaching
- Q & A
- Hot seat live coaching
- Guided integration journey (These are journeys to the core of your psyche to release blocks that hinder your expression)
- Weekly assignments to help you unleash your expression
- Intentional support community on Marco Polo
- Lifetime access to the calls recordings
- Exclusive 1:1 support from Xavier for those who choose the ultimate experience (SOLD OUT)
- Unique distinctions and tools that will help you to reconcile with your voice and allow yourself to be seen in the places where you used to hide. These tools will serve you for a lifetime.
What others are saying about working with me...
“Working with Xavier has been a truly life-changing experience! It left me feeling like a totally different person. I put myself and my needs first and am living authentically and visibly instead of hiding underneath shame. A true caterpillar to butterfly experience. I left the container with a stronger sense of self and a clear path forward, with new opportunities coming my way."
- Laura Connell, Trauma informed Coach and Author
“Xavier is a master coach who very often was able to read between the lines of my best attempts at self expression and to find a nugget of wisdom inside of it, giving me the tools and encouragement to integrate aspects of myself I didn't even know where there. Working with Xavier has completely shifted the way I relate to myself, my loved ones, and my work.“
-Peter Fam, Human rights lawyer.
Our transformational map...
& LIVE CALLS SCHEDULE
ALL CALLS WILL TAKE PLACE ON WEDNESDAY @ 3.30PM ET | 12.30PM PT.
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WEEK 1 : Reconciling with your voice
(Live Call: Wednesday April 24th @ 3.30pm ET | 12.30pm PT)
- Uprooting self censorship and self abandonment
- Cleansing your self-expression from "shoulds"
- Q&A and hot seat coaching w/ Xavier
- Guided integration journey & homework assignment
WEEK 2 : Inner alchemy - Dissolving the fears associated with being seen
(Live Call: Wednesday May 1st @ 3.30pm ET | 12.30pm PT)
- Transcending the fears of persecution, loss and humiliation.
- Staying heart-centered and authentic in the face of criticism.
- Q&A and hot seat coaching w/ Xavier
- Guided integration journey & homework assignment
WEEK 3 : Dethroning the archetypes that dim your light and mute your voice
(Live Call: Wednesday May 8th @ 3.30pm ET | 12.30pm PT)
- From inner critic to inner cheerleader
- From saboteur to uplifter, and from impostor to inner wisdom
- Q&A and hot seat coaching w/ Xavier
- Guided integration journey & homework assignment
WEEK 4 : Unlocking the archetypes of self liberation - Part 1
(Live Call: Wednesday May 15th @ 3.30pm ET | 12.30pm PT)
- Making peace with being misunderstood and seen as a fool
- Entering the arena: letting your voice be clumsy
- Q&A and hot seat coaching w/ Xavier
- Guided integration journey & homework assignment
WEEK 5 : Unlocking the archetypes of self liberation - Part 2
(Live Call: Wednesday May 22nd @ 3.30pm ET | 12.30pm PT)
- Dissolving the myth of perfectionism
- Letting your heart run your voice
- Q&A and hot seat coaching w/ Xavier
- Guided integration journey & homework assignment
WEEK 6 : Unleashing your heart-centered self expression.
(Live Call: Wednesday May 29th @ 3.30pm ET | 12.30pm PT)
- Unleashing your voice in a polarized world
- Embodying your unique templates of self expression
- Aligning your voice with your values
- Q&A and hot seat coaching w/ Xavier
- Guided integration journey & homework assignment
“Xavier is exceptional at what he does! He is so intuitive and I always felt like he knew exactly in which direction to lead sessions. His ability to support and guide you through your journey is second to none. I left my work with him feeling balanced, confident and more free than ever before.“
- Gemma Russell, hypnotherapist
“Xavier has been the most profound human I’ve worked with on my journey. His ability to truly uphold a safe container has invited parts of myself I was scared to bring to the surface, Xavier is a pivotal force that I will forever be grateful for.“
- Adam "Atropolis" Partridge, Producer & Mixing engineer
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“Xavier has helped me release additional blocks to being seen. This was a slam dunk experience and brought me to the next level of sharing my gifts. Thank you Xavier."
- Allison Dru, Psychologist, Reiki master & spiritual guide
Hi there, I am Xavier.
I am a Coach, Shadow integration facilitator, trauma-informed transformation guide and teacher. My work is about helping you integrate the geometry of self liberation. I find deep fulfilment in assisting light workers and thought leaders dissolve the hidden forces that keep them from shining bright and unleashing their expression.
My work is psycho-spiritual and bridges Jungian psychology, somatic experiencing, spiritual wisdom and transformational coaching.
With this offering, I bring you the inner technology that has allowed me to find and unleash my voice, personally coach hundreds of people, teach workshops to audiences of thousands, and bring my writing to millions. There is an art to being SEEN in a way that is uniquely meaningful to YOU! And I want to share that with you.
